How Do I Adult?

These past few months have been wild. I've been a wedding planning mad-woman, and working full time at the hospital as a pharmacy technician. Derek has been working, too, and we often work opposite shifts plus I work every other weekend, so we rarely get to see each other. It makes meeting vendors very challenging. We have been thinking about where we go from here. Questions come up like, "Do we want to stay in town?", "Do you want to go back to school?", "When?", "Where?", "How?", "Can I find another job anywhere else?", "Can you find a job after school?". We've straight up been running in circles. We decided we don't want to stay in town, and Derek does want to go back to school, but now we are worried I won't be able to find work down in Auburn that will pay enough to support us while he goes to school full time. There are only 80 days until the wedding, and most details are pinned down. I have the final meetings with vendors, and my bridal showers to go to this month, and then it's go time. After the wedding, we leave straight away for Tulum, Mexico for 5 days. Then when we get back, we have to have answers to all our questions, because school will start around January 14th-ish. I feel like this time is just flying by. Seriously, it is already the 8th month of the year. 4 months 'til Christmas, and it'll be our first as newly-wed's. We don't even know where we will be living yet. We also have no idea how to figure any of this stuff out. Our parents try to help, but they only know what they have learned, or what they were taught growing up. Times have changed, and many things are staggeringly different now. Maybe we need to see a life coach lol. I guess we just keep chugging along until some answers start hitting us in the face. If any of you out there are in the same situation as us, let me know below, and we might can help answer each others questions! Good luck out there, friends!